Winning Communication: Pathway to Female Orgasm

Most people would agree that communication is key to having a gratifying sex life and relationship. Since sex is so difficult to communicate about, it is also important to know how to communicate in a way that feels good. One way is to use what we call "Winning Communication". This involves both parties winning and getting what they want through deliberate gathering of useful information.

When a man asks a woman, "Do you like this?" it is just as likely she will say "no" as it is she will say “yes”. Potentially one of the reasons a woman might lie and say “yes”, is to avoid hurting his feelings, and is akin to faking it. If she says “no” neither person is going to feel good about it, and he is still lacking information about what she does like.

On the other hand, if he asks her "Do you want more pressure", he can win regardless of her answer. If she says "yes" he knows what to do to make it feel better, use more pressure. This is also one of the rare instances a “no” is good news, it means he is using the precise amount of pressure she likes, and he can now go on to ask questions until everything he is doing is exactly the way she wants it. This is also useful because what women enjoy can change from day to day or moment to moment. With winning communication he is equipped to give her what she wants, anytime and every time.