"Learning the Anatomy of Pleasure" with Deliberate Orgasm

Contemporary human sexual research shows us that through deliberate clitoral stimulation women can experience orgasm that is both longer and more intense, and that both males and females can remain in the orgasmic phase for much longer than earlier studies indicate. Deliberate Orgasm research by the Welcomed Consensus is contributing greatly to developing a new model or a female model of orgasm.

As this new expanded model of orgasm is emerging into the mainstream, more people are talking about understanding our anatomy, the importance of communication and having pleasure as opposed to climax be the goal of our sensual activities as evidenced in these excerpts of an article by Loveologist Wendy Strgar titled Learning the Anatomy of Pleasure.

“Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures."
~Voltaire

There is a lot about our own sexual anatomy that we never learned growing up. In fact, the anatomical facts of nature have been seriously updated. All of this talk of G spots and female ejaculation has inspired a second look. Who knew that the clitoris is not just a magic button crowning the vagina, but was proclaimed by Masters and Johnson as “a unique organ in the total of humanity.” The organ, with over 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis, has actually 18 parts both visible and invisible. It is so complex and extends so deeply into the pelvis that is now actually considered an organ system. The clitoris is now widely considered homologous to the penis with more structural similarities than differences. This new understanding of the function of the clitoris as an intricate network capable of a vast multitude of unique and powerful orgasmic sensations literally changes the map to pleasure.

The same could be said of the male sexual organs. The anxiety that many, if not most, men feel about their penis size is as universal as the misconception that it is the penis that is the ringleader when it comes to sexual satisfaction and prowess.

Our lacking and misguided ideas about our anatomy may be partly to blame for the real problem that plagues so many couples. The incomplete understanding of our own or our partner’s anatomy is often accompanied by the lack of skill building that makes for intense and growing sexual satisfaction.

Of the women who have given their men sexual advice, over 64 percent of them said that when they gave their partners feedback on their love skills, they experienced more pleasure. The same was true for nearly 60 percent of men; so why not consider your sexual health as a new and vital home study course?

Taking control of your sexual education is one of the most loving acts you can bring to your relationship. But don’t get too serious about the lessons- the connection between humor and eroticism runs deep in our bones. Remember your childhood games of “playing doctor” or the laughter that erupted from the “gross-out” jokes? Applying this kind of levity and curiosity to re-learning the anatomical map to pleasure will make you laugh and surprise you, maybe even with an orgasm or two.”

Read the full article Learning the Anatomy of Pleasure.

For information on a woman’s pleasurable anatomy, read about Female Orgasm.

These gratifying contemporary orgasmic experiences are explained and illustrated in the Female Orgasm Videos. This unique set of educational female orgasm videos shows a man and a woman creating this new kind of orgasm in her body. All of the concepts that are demonstrated with female orgasm in the videos also apply to creating that type of orgasm in a man's body.