Tuesday, April 7, 2015

What are you going to put your attention on today?

Yes, that's right...and actually...every single day you make HUNDREDS of choices.

Saturday, April 4, 2015

The life of a sensualist


Oh for a Life of sensations rather than thoughts.

~John Keats

Monday, March 30, 2015

Deliberate Orgasm


"Deliberate Orgasm is both people putting their attention on one person’s body for the optimum amount of pleasure. Oftentimes when people are making love, they shift their attention back and forth. They are wondering what the other person is thinking, they’re wondering if they’re pleasing them, they’re wondering if they’re doing it right, and the other person is thinking exactly the same thing. We call it Deliberate Orgasm in the sense that both people choose beforehand who’s body they’re going to put their attention on. They decide and both people put their attention on that one person for exactly that – the optimum amount of pleasure. Seems like a simple concept, and it is a simple concept, and it is so much fun because people don’t have to wonder anymore all those questions; they can both focus on the sensation that is being experienced in the moment. People often say that from experiencing orgasm that way with each other, there is a new realm of pleasure that opens up."

~Francoise, Welcomed Consensus instructor

Friday, March 27, 2015

Communication and friendship

A woman’s pleasures and desires are always changing, moment to moment, day to day. Noticing your partner and having clear communication, both in and out of the bedroom, are fundamental elements for a fun and thriving relationship.

Men and Women want the same things

Indeed they do.

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Have your body the way you like it.

It was (over)due to happen. Glad to hear women can afford to look like their mature selves without all that added anti-pube pressure.